Me

I work with teenagers. Apparently one of them snapped this photo last Friday as I was standing on the 2nd … More

The Work of Grief

I’ve been a little MIA. Knee-deep in a new wave of grief, perhaps triggered by next year’s one-year anniversary of … More

I’ve always been really into setting goals. Every year I do my resolutions/intentions. Here is what I made for 2017: … More

Many people wonder what it’s like to be in my “situation.” The truth is, when you lose your partner at … More

I’m completely off-centered right now. Everything seems out of whack. I’m in a bad mood. I feel gross. I don’t … More

My husband used to listen to this French song. I didn’t know who sang it. But I definitely associated the … More

Everyone, I imagine, has their own unique experience as a widow or widower. Mine is deeply intertwined with feminism. I … More

As we approach the one year mark of my husband’s death, I find myself experiencing bursts of new thoughts and … More

Two years ago tomorrow (3/2) my little (big) Peter Jack was born. 10 lbs. 3 oz and no drugs (I … More

I love to travel. I’ve been traveling extensively since I was 19. One of the things I knew I couldn’t … More