Raising a Daughter

I’ve been a little MIA for the past couple of weeks because I was finishing a project for a contest.…

Happy Birthday, Kenneth

Another birthday has come, without him. Today would have been Kenneth’s birthday. The kids have decided that they would like…

The Missing

The feeling of missing someone is a tricky subject. This morning I received a reminder from Timehop about a Facebook…

The Math of Only Parenthood

When Kenneth was alive, we split everything in half. He drove the kids to preschool in the mornings while I…

The Loneliness of Grief

I realized that maybe I wasn’t just tired. The low energy, the feelings of disinterest, the stress of being overwhelmed…

Vanishing Self Syndrome

Pictured: the better part of relationships.    “Once you lose yourself, you have two choices: find the person you used…

Kenneth the Magician

After Kenneth’s funeral, at night, long after everyone who had come to pay their respects had gone home, I remember…

Marriage

When somebody dies, they tend to get elevated to an untouchable godliness that can only be bestowed upon those who…